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Sixty, Unsettled

My retirement search through Southeast Asia, and the practical guides it's turning into along the way.

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I'm Charlie. I'm turning 60 this December and I still haven't decided anything about retirement. Not where, not how, not on what. So instead of guessing, I will be finding out, living in a handful of Southeast Asian cities for a month or more each, across Thailand, Vietnam, and the Philippines, long enough to see past the tourist version of each place. Which cities, and which country in the end, are still open, and they get decided on camera as the videos go up, not before. Everything here, the videos, the guides, this site, comes out of that search. I'm posting it as it happens, before I know how it ends, not cleaning it up afterward.

Three things, one search

What's here

01. The Search

The story so far

Why "Sixty, Unsettled," where the search stands right now and what's still open, and the real-time diary this whole project started as. The boring parts stay in. No highlight reel.

02. The Guides

Country-by-country retirement kits

Everything I learn along the way turns into an actual number, not a vibe. The Thailand Retirement Numbers Kit is live now. Vietnam and the Philippines come next, once I've lived in both.

03. The Blog

Notes from the road and the research

Decisions and numbers, and the reasoning behind both, written as things happen instead of recapped once they're already settled.

The Thailand Retirement Numbers Kit
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The Thailand Retirement Numbers Kit

Budget calculator, visa guide, and 90-day plan, built around itemized numbers for five cities and all five visa routes an American retiree can use in 2026. Not another range.

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